About me
From the "reliable people-pleaser" to the self-led woman.
I work with women who know they’re meant for more…
but keep finding themselves over-giving, overthinking, stuck between who they’ve been, and who they know they’re ready to become.
I’m here to show you what’s been shaping your reality, to cut through the stories you’ve attached to your experiences and the survival patterns that have been keeping you stuck.
This work is about truth.
The kind that exposes the distortions and shifts the way you see and experience everything.
Self-led, independent women like you aren’t stuck because you’re not trying. You’re hyper aware of the energies around you, you can sense everyone else’s needs often before you’re own.
They’re stuck because they’re still operating from survival patterns that you are too close to to see.
Signs you’re still in it?
craving approval and tying your worth to other people’s opinions
taking on too much to prove yourself or carry others
avoiding conflict, ignoring your own needs
feeling responsible for everyone else’s emotions
absorbing other people’s moods and losing track of your own
feeling guilty when you prioritise yourself
saying yes when you mean no, staying where you’re unfulfilled
fearing rejection so much… you abandon yourself first
These roles were designed to keep you safe, but they’ll keep you small.
You can’t build a life, have fulfilling relationships or thrive in your career from survival.
At some point, you have to become someone new.
who is femi?
What changed my life wasn’t a glow up, it was a reality check.
In the 90s, I was the mixed-race girl in a predominantly white town…
learning early what it meant to be othered.
Racial slurs shouted across the street and feeling like I didn’t fully belong anywhere.
And that father wound? Babyyy, it ran deep!
I spent years running from that pain—into drugs, alcohol, and relationships that drained me.
Still… I was the “reliable one”, the one everyone leaned one while I was lying awake at night feeling like no one was there for me.
My self-worth was on the floor.
So I stayed where I was being dimmed, in my relationships and in a job that drained me.
Until one day I was standing in my kitchen and my (ex) husband told me I was “too much” —
that he couldn’t stand the sound of my voice. And I felt a fire ignite inside me.
In that moment something became crystal clear— stay where I was (in despair)… or choose myself.
I chose me, and I stopped avoiding what I already knew. When I changed my mindset and stopped relating to the identity that I’d long outgrown, I realised that I wasn’t a victim of my experiences or my upbringing —I was the one who was reinforcing the patterns and beliefs through what I had been tolerating, avoiding and refusing to see clearly.
That was the beginning of a whole new way of being and triggered my journey of self discovery and shedding of who I was not, to become who I knew I was capable of being.
I stopped trying to fix myself to fit in, and I started to be really fucking honest with myself.
Raw honesty and radical responsibility, was the crux of it all.
LIVED. embodied. proven
grounded in a blend of formal training and lived experience, i’m certified in:
Hypnotherapy
Somatic Therapy
Reiki (Master & Teacher level)
Seichim (energetic clearing & activation)
Sound Therapy
Yoga
Quantum / energy-based healing modalities
Bodywork
And I’ve spent years developing my psychic and intuitive work, as well as deeper studies in plant medicine and expanded states of healing.
But more than any certification—
it’s the embodiment of this work that matters. I don’t just teach it, I live it.
I began in hands-on bodywork in 2009. Learning how to regulate the nervous system, feel where energy was blocked, and how to read what wasn’t being said.
And what I saw, over and over again, was this:
The physical work opened the door—
but the real transformation happened in the moments of insight.
When I reflected back what clients couldn’t yet see, shifts happened at an identity level.
That’s where this work was born. Now, we go straight there.
Using intuitive insight, psychic awareness, and energetic work,
I help you see what’s actually been shaping your reality—and support you to shift it.
This is the root of everything I offer— identity work.
I get to the root of the pattern and clearly show you:
where you’re out of alignment
what you’ve been avoiding
where you are holding energy that is not yours to hold
and where you’re still staying loyal to an identity that no longer fits
It’s the type of activation where you shift into a new reality, a whole new way of being and where what felt out of reach before, now becomes your standard.
Here’s what happens when you invest your time and energy in this work:
your decisions are grounded in your inner knowing, not fear
you leave situations that don’t feel right
you stop chasing people, reassurance or validation
what you used to tolerate… is longer available
THIS is not light WORK.
The deeper I’ve gone into my own darkness,
the more I’ve been able to hold truth — mine and yours.
This work is raw and confronting. But the more honest you are — and the more willing you are to take responsibility for the life you’ve been creating — clarity replaces confusion. And self-abandonment becomes unbearable.
What you’re looking for
isn’t somewhere else.
It’s on the other side of what you haven’t yet faced.
If you felt that in your body… this is your starting point.