About me
I work with women who know they're meant for more — but keep finding themselves over-giving, overthinking, stuck between who they've been and who they know they're ready to become.
You're not stuck because you're not trying. You're hyper-aware of the energies around you. You can sense everyone else's needs, often before your own. You're stuck because you're still operating from survival patterns you're too close to see clearly.
Sound familiar?
Craving approval, tying your worth to other people's opinions
Taking on too much to prove yourself or carry others
Avoiding conflict, ignoring your own needs
Feeling responsible for everyone else's emotions
Absorbing other people's moods and losing track of your own
Feeling guilty when you prioritise yourself
Saying yes when you mean no, staying where you're unfulfilled
Fearing rejection so much you abandon yourself first
These patterns were built to keep you safe. They'll also keep you small.
You can't build a life you want, have relationships that feed you, or move forward in your work from survival mode.
At some point, you have to become someone new.
What changed my life wasn't a glow up. It was a reality check.
In the 90s, I was the mixed-race girl in a predominantly white town. Racial slurs slung across the street. Never quite belonging anywhere. I learned early that something about me was wrong.
That belief ran my life for the next two decades.
The father wound ran deep and it did what abandonment wounds do. I spent years running from that pain. Drugs, alcohol, sex, relationships that drained every ounce of my light, anything that meant I didn't have to stop and look at what was underneath.
I was the reliable one, the people-pleaser, the one everyone leaned on. Self-worth on the floor. The numbing just wore different faces.
At 25 I entered a relationship I already knew wasn't right. I married him at 32 anyway. The abandonment wound doing what it does, trying to mould someone into what I needed instead of seeing what was actually there. Choosing familiarity over truth. Shrinking to fit. My inner voice was screaming the entire time. I just kept turning the volume down.
I left the marriage. Walked straight into another relationship — more controlling, more suffocating. Different shape. Same root.
This time I was deep in the fixer role and so attached to being the empath, the one who holds it together, that I was abandoning myself daily trying to save him. Tolerating being his emotional punching bag because some part of me had decided that's what I was worth.
One day something in me stopped negotiating with reality. It was like I’d just put on a pair of new glasses with an updated prescription and saw everything clearly.
I ended it. The next day I walked into a women's healing circle and felt something activate that I'd spent years shutting down.
My psychic senses came back online. I stopped abandoning my intuition. Started listening to my body instead of overriding it.
Then I spent years doing everything to heal — plant medicine, kambo, reiki, somatics, mentorships, retreats. Grateful for all of it.
But I was still looking for something to fix.
Until I got really fucking honest.
The kind of honesty where you look directly at what you've been avoiding and admit you were the one tolerating it. Creating your own heartbreak. Choosing it. Recreating it on repeat. Because it was familiar.
That was the turning point. Not a modality. Not a ceremony. Radical honesty. Radical responsibility. Seeing things crystal clear and stopping the negotiation with reality.
I stopped trying to fix myself to fit in and started asking what I'd been refusing to look at directly.
At some point, you have to become someone new.
LIVED. embodied. proven.
certified in:
Hypnotherapy · Somatic Therapy · Reiki (Master & Teacher)
Seichim · Sound Therapy · Yoga · Plant Medicines
Quantum Healing · Bodywork
But more than any certification— it’s the embodiment of this work that matters.
I don’t just teach it, I live it.
My introduction to this work was through hands-on bodywork, which I began in 2009. Learning how to regulate the nervous system, feeling where energy was blocked, reading what wasn't being said.
What I saw, over and over again:
The physical work opened the door. But the real transformations happened in the moments of insight.
When I could see the invisible thread connecting everything my clients couldn't yet see — because they were too close to their own story.
They carried unprocessed grief from their mother’s fear of abandonment. Over-giving because it felt unsafe to have their own needs met. Energy stuck in their throat because they'd never felt safe to speak their truth.
When they could finally feel and see that clearly, the shift happened at identity level.
That's where this work was born.
Now we go straight to the root. I use intuitive insight, psychic awareness, and energetic work to show you what's actually been shaping your reality — and support you to shift it as you become the self-led woman you know you're meant to be.
This is what the work reaches:
where you’re out of alignment
what you’ve been avoiding
where you’re holding energy that is not yours to hold
Where you’re still staying loyal to an identity that no longer fits
Here's what shifts:
your decisions come from your inner knowing, not fear
you leave situations that don’t feel right
you stop chasing people, reassurance or validation
what you used to tolerate is longer available to you
THIS is not light WORK.
The deeper I’ve gone into my own darkness,
the more I’ve been able to see and hold truth — mine and yours.
This work is raw and confronting. But the more honest you are, and the more willing you are to take responsibility for the life you’ve been creating, clarity replaces confusion as you see through the distortions you’ve been operating from.
What you’re looking for
isn’t somewhere else.
It’s on the other side of what you haven’t yet faced.
If you felt that in your body… this is your starting point.